Words with Attitude

Attitude affects everything. Websters Dictionary of 1828 gives 2 definitions for this word: one concerning the posture of a person in a figure or sculpture and one referring to the overall posture or position of a person. For example, it describes one having a firm attitude when faced with trouble. The current Websters Dictionary has many more definitions, including references to the ones listed above. There were two related to each other that drew my attention: a mental position and a feeling or emotion with regard to a fact or state. For example, an optimistic attitude. Together “attitude” can be interpreted as the thoughts or feelings toward a situation show up in your posture. These attitudes not only show up in our physical state, but also what words are used to address the situation. A positive attitude toward a situation brings about positive words and many times works to ease the attitude of those around us. However, a negative attitude toward a situation brings negative words and puts others on edge as well, affective their attitude toward the situation. It’s at these times that it’s challenging to not hurt others with our words. Proverbs 18:21 says” Death and life are in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruit.” (NRSV) Actual physical death is not going to strike when chosen words bring hurt to others. Harshly spoken words will bring distance between you and that person and more importantly, distance between you and God. Distance from God is where the destruction comes for those who don’t control their words and attitudes. Choosing the right words and keeping attitudes in check is a daily struggle. It is possible to survive giving and receiving harsh words, but wouldn’t it be better to thrive by working to control our words and attitudes?